Mom & Dad Plan Mom & Dad Plan

The kit library

Kits

You do not need to solve every family decision today. Pick the conversation that is closest to what is happening now.

Below are the eleven kits, sorted into three simple groups, plus one private practice tool for the complete collection. Each one is a short set of printable pages: how to open the subject, words you can actually say, and a place to write down what was decided.

Every kit below is marked Coming soon. Nothing here is for sale yet — when a kit's checkout goes live, its mark comes off this page. In the meantime, you're welcome to look around.

Family coordination

For when brothers and sisters see things differently, or the plan has to stretch across the miles.

The Sibling Talk

Coming soon

For when the work is falling on one brother or sister, and nobody has said so out loud yet.

The Long-Distance Plan

Coming soon

For living hours away and still wanting to help — a plan for who checks in, and how often.

The Moves-In Talk

Coming soon

For weighing whether living together could work — honestly, and before anyone's boxes are packed.

Practical support

For the day-to-day safety questions — driving, the house, and the doctor — where waiting is its own decision.

The Keys Talk

Coming soon

For the conversation everyone dreads — begun early, with the keys staying in your parent's hands.

The Help-at-Home Talk

Coming soon

For accepting a hand around the house on your parent's terms — not a takeover arranged by someone else.

The Doctor Talk

Coming soon

For going along to an appointment without turning it into an ambush — and letting your parent lead.

Your parent's world

For the smaller things that quietly become big things — the mail, the passwords, the basement full of fifty years.

The Scam Talk

Coming soon

For opening the subject without blame — before a close call, or calmly after one.

The Downsizing Talk

Coming soon

For talking about a lifetime of things — without your parent feeling their home is being taken apart.

The Tech Help Talk

Coming soon

For the phone settings and passwords — so help feels like teamwork instead of a test.

The Stay-Connected Plan

Coming soon

For finding activities, making an invitation small, arranging the ride, and keeping a light family rhythm — while your parent chooses what to try.

The New-Partner Talk

Coming soon

For a respectful first reaction, an easy way to ask to meet someone new, and practical talks that stay with your parent's decisions.

Private rehearsal tool Coming soon

The Practice Partner

A private practice tool for trying the first words out loud with your own AI before the real conversation. Planned for the Complete Mom and Dad Plan collection.

Not sure which one fits?

Start with the conversation you keep putting off

Most families don't need all eleven kits plus the practice tool. They need the one for the thing that's already happening — a fender bender, a phone call from a worried sibling, an envelope from the IRS. That's your kit.

Name what's actually happening

Not the big worry — the recent moment. The second close call with a scammer. The doctor's note nobody read. Pick the kit for that.

Read it before you print it

Every kit is a few pages you can read in one sitting. If it doesn't sound like you, it isn't the right one yet.

Begin with one person

Most of these talks work best one-on-one first — Mom or Dad, or one sibling. The kit shows you which order works.

Pick the one that fits. That's the whole first step.

The kits aren't on sale yet. When the first ones are ready, this page is where you'll find them — eleven conversation kits, each printable at home the same evening, plus one private practice tool for trying the first words.